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She wants to cheat with me and I'm really into her, but I have always been opposed to the idea of cheating. Do I go for the “[bleep] it" option or the "moral" option?

Digital Content Coordinator for Red Eye | Single | 22 | @shelbielbostedt Chances are, if she wants to cheat on her boyfriend, there are some other underlying issues that are making her seek attention elsewhere. If you and your friend are really into each other, that's great.

I broke up with the other guy to pursue this relationship, and it's been great.

Maybe that's not the right answer for her, but a decision needs to be made. Michelle Lopez Digital editor for Red Eye | Married | 32 | @michelleglopez Temptation is tough.

he whole threesome thing started when my partner and I were curious about exploring our sexualities together,” Dimo Trifonov, tech branding specialist and founder of 3nder, told the Observer.

“She had feelings for a girl, and she didn’t know how to tell me.

When asked what people were looking for on 3nder, the most popular response was “open-minded friends,” or “people open to new experiences.” Tinder and Ok Cupid can be safe spaces to seek out others with singular tastes, a la Fifty Shades of Grey, but anyone who has ever swiped right knows it’s far too easy to e-run into a co-worker or childhood friend.

On 3nder, everyone knows what they’re signing up for—there’s no chance of pretending you made a mistake.

I started it as a playground for people who want to explore themselves.”3nder, better known as Tinder for threesomes, connects “kinky, curious and open- minded singles and couples around you,” who can then join a group chat.But that doesn’t justify her wanting to bone you while still being committed to this other guy. The best relationships, in my opinion, start through friendships.If you two are truly friends first, you should feel OK expressing your moral dilemma to her, even if it’s not a super sexy conversation to have. You need to give her an ultimatum, though: leave her boyfriend to be with you, or go back to being strictly platonic friends.In my mind, this is the threesome holy grail: genuine attraction sparks between everyone, and a fun moment impulsively turns erotic.And then there’s the most common type of threesome: when a couple hunts for a third person, often in a desperate way, stalking unsuspecting singles at bars and dating sites. The question is: How does one avoid being the creepy couple, and instead elegantly finesse one’s way into a threesome?